Unity and the Law of Love

September 22, 2026

“Let us therefore follow after the things which make for peace, and things wherewith one may edify another.” Romans 14:19

The Apostle Paul's letter to the Romans is a message about unity in Christ. He outlines the fundamentals of sin, repentance toward God, and the preeminence of faith in Christ as the remedy for sin. He recognizes the futility of man's effort, as well as the emptiness of outward conformity to the law of Moses and contrasts those failures with the victory of the righteousness that comes through the grace of our Lord Jesus. It is an overarching recognition that crucifying our carnal nature in order to live in the power of the Spirit of God brings unity, able even to overcome the ancient history of division between Jew and Gentile.


After laying the foundation of salvation by faith through grace, Paul proceeds to give very specific instructions about how to let the righteousness of Jesus rule our lives.[1] These teachings, while not strictly related to the gift of salvation through faith in Christ are not optional for a follower of Jesus. They are clear commandments that define the life of a Christian. Bless, don't curse. Leave vengeance to God. Share with needy believers. Pray. And many more clear expressions of the power of the Holy Spirit.


Then, Paul instructs the Roman church how to love, esteem, and build each other up when there are disagreements about the application of faith in matters about which Jesus and the Apostles did not teach.[2] Christian love and unity are often tested and revealed by such disputable matters, particularly when argued with excessive passion or stubbornness. The Bible speaks to a remedy for this potential fracture which can be referred to as the law of love. Selflessly practicing this biblical love can lead to profound unity, even amid differences. 

 

The Biblical Remedy

Jeremiah prophesied of the age in which we live: “Behold, the days come, saith the Lord, that I will make a new covenant… I will put my law in their inward parts and write it in their hearts; and will be their God, and they shall be my people”.[3] The solution to disputable matters requires commitment to the law of love, manifested through the power of the Holy Spirit in a believer’s life. Following Jesus' example is central to the law of love. It is only through submitting to him and taking on his mind that we will find solutions to such disagreements. Indeed, they are redeemed by him. Human solutions to our disagreements, those seemingly remedied without the mind of Christ, are not likely to edify the brethren or glorify God. In Jesus we find...


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... both an example to follow and the power to embrace a solution which will glorify Him and sanctify us in the process. 


Similarly, Peter addresses those of “like precious faith through the righteousness of God and our Savior Jesus Christ, whose divine power hath given us all things that pertain to life and godliness, that we might be partakers of the divine nature, having escaped the corruption that is in the world through lust.”[4] He raises our vision to be sanctified by being partakers of his divine nature. As partakers of God’s divine nature, our sanctified living is manifested by faith, virtue (moral excellence born of the Holy Spirit), knowing Christ, temperance, patience (abiding and persevering with hope), godliness (devotion to God), brotherly kindness, and charity. “For if these things be in you and abound, they make you that ye shall neither be barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. But he that lacketh these things is blind, having forgotten that he was purged from his old sins”.[5] Those who diligently pursue Peter's instruction will find themselves unified in the divine nature of the Lord, which glorifies God.

 

Biblical Unity

Jesus repeatedly confronted the errors of the scribes and Pharisees by teaching the truth in love. He pointed to the purposes underpinning the law and always elevated the people's vision toward God's love and mercy. As we grow in our understanding and submission to biblical truth, we find ourselves strongly encouraged toward unity focused by sacrificial love for one another.


To this end, Paul encourages us that disputable matters should be considered in the larger context of the kingdom of God. He addresses this topic by first telling us what the kingdom of God is not – it is not meat and drink. That is, it is not personal preferences and individual persuasions regarding inconsequential matters. Rather, “the kingdom of God is righteousness, and peace, and joy in the Holy Ghost.”[6] It is righteousness by faith which works love. Simply put, “let brotherly love continue”[7], and be established with grace, not with meats.


The New Testament is centered on grace and truth with discernment enabled by the Holy Spirit. The Apostle John posed the question, how can you say you love God whom you do not see when you do not love your brother whom you do see?[8] Thus, there is wonderful purpose in the existence of disputable matters. That God would use these matters to glorify himself is in step with his redemptive qualities. Biblical handling of disputable matters demonstrates brotherly love which brings glory to God. Brotherly love does not take undue personal liberty nor impose personal persuasions on a fellow believer—both of which can lead to self-willed variance within the church family. Rather it gives opportunity to manifest the law of love in very real ways.


The church is called to biblical unity. Christ prayed, “that they all may be one; as thou, Father, art in me, and I in thee, that they also may be one in us: that the world may believe that thou hast sent me…and hast loved them, as thou hast loved me”.[9] Church unity is thus found in the love and mind of Christ—the very Word of Truth. For it is not when you have my mind, or I have your mind, but when we both have Christ’s mind that our friends and neighbors observe our mutual love and esteem and glorify God. This biblical remedy of the law of love pushing us toward unity with the mind of Christ through love for one another is difficult work. Yet this difficult work brings glory to God as those who are strong enough in faith to feel a liberty that would condemn others exercise personal restraint around disputable matters – all cradled in the more complete selfless love of Christ. May God’s grace enable us to live our lives reflecting this profound love.   


[1] Romans 12 and 13

[2] Romans 14 and 15

[3] Jeremiah 31:31-33; 2 Corinthians 3:3-6

[4] 2 Peter 1:1-4

[5] 2 Peter 1:1-12

[6] Romans 14:17

[7] Hebrews 13:1

[8] 1 John 4:20

[9] John 17:21,23

October 21, 2026
As we approach the end of fall and the harvest season, we often focus our attention on Thanksgiving Day. We are fortu­nate to live in a land that recognizes the need to pause and give thanks to our great God for the many blessings he bestows upon us. However, the Bible calls us to be thankful in all times and circumstances – not just once a year. “O give thanks unto the Lord, for he is good.” [i] “In every thing give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.” [ii] These two verses are similar and yet can be interpreted differently if quoted in isolation. Thanking God for his good­ness seems an easy commandment to obey; however, some circumstances are more difficult to appreciate. Giving thanks or being thankful is referenced over one hundred times in scripture. And naturally it can seem easier to give thanks when circumstances are pleasing. It is easier to thank God when a loved one repents. It is easier to thank him when we are sitting in church, listening to his Word, worshipping in song, surrounded by faithful believers. It is easier to recite 1 Thess. 5:18 when the trials of life are light and well-spaced. But what happens when life is not going well, circumstances seem impossible, or difficulties seem to pile up? Can we have thankful posture in dire situations or through sad experiences? It is clear in the Bible that by God’s grace and with intentional effort, we can have a thankful spirit and respect toward God even when the load is heavy. Scriptures in Job provide an excellent Old Testament example. After hearing a series of devastating reports about his family and possessions, Job was able to say “The Lord gave, and the Lord hath taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.” [iii] After being struck with sore boils from the sole of his foot to his crown and having been ridiculed by his wife for retaining his integrity, Job said “Shall we receive good at the hand of God, and shall we not receive evil?” [iv] Job did not minimize the pain of the evil he was experiencing, but in the midst of the devastation he focused his attention on the goodness and faithfulness of God. Likewise, the disciples in the New Testament were often faced with seemingly insurmountable obstacles as they spread the Word of God. Yet they looked upon their afflictions as a privi­lege. After being beaten and com­manded to not speak in the name of Jesus, “They departed from the pres­ence of the council, rejoicing that they were counted worthy to suffer shame for his name.” [v] At the same time, when Stephen was stoned, they grieved deeply at the devastating loss, yet trusted in God’s grace and goodness to see them through and somehow redeem the worst of circumstances. -----------------CONTINUED PORTION BELOW-------------------- Remembering the Lord's graciousness and track record of bringing good out of evil can help us maintain a thankful heart despite the challenges we face. Whether amidst hard circumstances or easy, we can focus on the goodness and faithfulness of God. Without intentional focus, we can tend to overlook gratitude when life is good because the very simple and basic needs of life are so easily realized. An abundance of material blessings can lead us to take basic needs for granted. However, being grounded in a thankful spirit can help carry us when sometimes things do not seem abundant. Simple disciplines or practices can help us foster this thankful spirit. Taking the time to pause and write a list of all we have received from God, giving him thanks for his goodness can help us turn from an entitled mindset toward a thankful mindset. Remembering God's goodness can be especially helpful when life is hard. The practice of gratitude journaling helps us remain focused on God above all during these overwhelming times. Beyond the physical needs that can be so easy to count, he also provides many spiritual blessings. In time of need, he provides us with an abundance of grace that gives us love we do not deserve and helps us serve him in ways far beyond what we could do of our own ability. God’s wisdom and his compassion assure us that he will provide for all our needs, and yet he will also withhold what is harmful if we will allow him to do so. He knows our needs and in his infinite wisdom he will supply all our needs. A practice of worshipping God can also help grow our spiritual life and encourage grateful hearts. God’s truths can be engraved into our minds as we sing and praise him, no matter the circumstances. In addition, our church body encourages us to connect, travel, and grow together as believers, helping one another during both joyous and hard times in life. This spiritual connection with others is a spiritual blessing that can easily be forgotten. Finally, many of us have been born into families where we were taught the truth of God’s Word, being exposed since we were young to the promise of salvation through Jesus Christ and the knowledge of our great and loving God whom we can call Father. This thankful spirit is often born out of knowing the Father, whose image we carry. Having a clear vision and understanding of God’s character and attributes can help us develop a thankful spirit. Among the many reasons to thank God are his power, his grace, and his mercy. We thank him for the love he showed when he sent his only begotten son, allowing us to have forgiveness of our sins and victory over death through repentance, confession, and faith in his name. He provides his Word, giving us a perfect source of wisdom and direction for our lives. His Holy Spirit provides believers with comfort, conviction, and guidance toward all truth. In addition, there are many other attributes of God to consider such as his goodness, presence, sustenance, protection, and many more. The implications for our lives of the many attributes in this list, which could be much longer, are beyond human comprehension but worth contemplating more deeply as we practice a life of gratitude. Whether you are in a joyous time of life or a time when life is difficult, may the remembrance of these many truths provide a new understanding to the Scripture’s challenge to, “In every thing, give thanks.” [vi] May this Thanksgiving holiday remind you of our great and good God, the loving sacrifice of Jesus, and the faithful presence of the Holy Spirit who has come to guide us not only in the good, but also in the difficult of life. And may this testimony of thankfulness greatly affect our own lives and the lives of those around us. [i] Psalm 107:1 [ii] I Thess. 5:18 [iii] Job 1:21 [iv] Job 2:10 [v] Acts 5:41 [vi] I Thess. 5:18
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