Reflecting Christ to the LGBT Community

September 19, 2024

"Know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s.”

1 Corinthians 6:19-20

In recent years, society’s attitudes toward individuals experiencing Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) issues have shifted considerably. As believers, we may wonder what it looks like to reflect God’s love, grace, and truth to those in this group. When approaching this topic, many Christ-followers come to the table with different perspectives. Alhough our experiences with LGBT issues are varied, we share core beliefs about truth. We believe that the Bible is true, timeless, and inspired of God and that biblical precepts are useful for correction and instruction in righteousness.[i] God’s Word is clear about our creator’s intention for the human body, sexuality, and marriage. Our bodies were designed by God to be used for his purposes and not our own.[ii] Marriage is divinely intended to be a lifelong covenant between a biological male and female.[iii] Homosexual relationships have no place in God’s plan.[iv] We must remain grounded on these biblical truths.


Scripture is clear that homosexual acts are not part of God’s best plan. However, it does not categorize LGBT-related sins as more sinful than other sins, and neither should we. Often, when homosexual behavior is mentioned in the Bible, it is included with other sexual and nonsexual sins.[v] Romans 1 lists same-sex encounters along with the sins of envy, debate, deceit, gossip, spitefulness, pride, boasting, and disobedience to parents. Which of us cannot find our past behavior on that list? We all need redemption, because all have sinned and deserve God’s judgment. Yet, God sent Jesus, not to condemn the world but to save us through his sacrifice.[vi] Anyone who confesses the Lord Jesus and walks in his Spirit is free from condemnation.[vii] This is lifegiving news, and this hope is for everyone. No matter what our sins have been, God wants us to be at peace with him through Jesus Christ. Conversely, the reasoning that “we all sin” must not cause us to be dismissive of sexual sins, including LGBT-related sins. Converted Christians seek to bring all aspects of their lives into alignment with God’s Word.[viii] May we repent of sin in our own lives and walk alongside family and friends with LGBT struggles leading them toward the path of repentance, sanctification, and identity in Christ.[ix]

 

As we seek to support those who are struggling, let’s listen closely to their individual stories, because each situation is different. We may encounter unbelievers who identify as a member of the LGBT community or advocate for this group. We should not be surprised when unbelievers behave in ways that are unbiblical, but we should show them the same consideration we show to any of God’s creation. We may meet converted believers who are dealing with same-sex attraction (attraction to the same sex that is not acted upon) or gender dysphoria (questions about their gender identity). These individuals need judgment-free support from their church families as they seek to walk in biblical truth. Finally, we may come across professed believers who are living unbiblically regarding LGBT behavior. Such situations can be confusing and painful, and our reaction will necessarily be different when the one walking in LGBT behaviors is a professed believer. Family, friends, and church leadership need to lean on spirit-led discernment in such instances. Our words and actions must be full of truth, wisdom, grace, and humility as we seek to point them back to the narrow way.[x]


Our relationships with those who support LGBT lifestyles require a delicate balance of both grace and truth. Grace is God’s gently expressed unmerited favor, kindness, and strength, while truth is God’s gently expressed holiness, perfection, and righteousness. Grace without truth leads to acceptance or celebration of sin, while truth without grace leads to condemnation that is inconsistent with the gospel. Ungodly condemnation often includes rejection, belittlement, or disgust. As followers of Jesus, we should refrain from derogatory language or behavior, including toward LGBT individuals.[xi]


Our Lord wants everyone to be saved and come to knowledge of truth.[xii] All who enter the doors of our churches should be met by the welcoming love of their creator. We believe that through the power of the Holy Spirit and the gospel message, anyone can come to saving faith. Our approach should not be to convert people from homosexual to heterosexual, but to foster relationships with Jesus that will lead to transformed lives. We believe the church should provide a safe welcoming environment in which discipleship can occur and a new creature in Christ can flourish.[xiii] As with any convert in our church, when a soul who experiences same-sex attraction or gender dysphoria matures in Christ, exhibits the fruit of the Spirit, lives an overcoming life, and desires to participate fully in the life of the church, we look forward to their testimony, baptism, and membership in our church family. Of course, temptation will not cease after baptism, as any seasoned Christian can verify, but we trust that these new believers, like all who are born again, will have the Holy Spirit and the body of Christ to support them as we walk the narrow way together.


As LGBT lifestyles become more visible and accepted in society, we often find our children becoming aware of LGBT issues at younger ages. It is important to be aware of the messages our children hear around this topic. We need to be intentional about teaching children God’s design for sexuality. We should also teach our children about the biblical roles of men and women without encouraging stereotypes that lie beyond the teachings of the Word. While God created us male and female, he also created beautiful variation in the ways that masculinity and femininity may be expressed. May our children always know that we value the person that God made them to be.[xiv]


As with any issue that is deeply rooted in differing beliefs and ideologies, when discussing the topic of LGBT ideology, it is easy to pit “us” against “them,” to think of souls with different beliefs as the enemy and to forget the struggles and humanity behind the choices they have made. Jesus did not forget the humanity of the outcasts and sinners he encountered in his ministry. Instead, he engaged tax collectors, adulterers, and others who were rejected by religious leaders of his day. Jesus understood that a respectful relationship is a more effective way to build disciples than condemnation. May we follow Christ’s example by treating everyone with meekness and respect, not wavering from scriptural truth, but speaking the truth in love.


[i]
2 Timothy 3:16

[ii] 1 Corinthians 6:19-20

[iii] Mark 10:6-9

[iv] Leviticus 18:22

[v] Romans 1:21-32, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10, Galatians 5:19-21

[vi] John 3:16, Romans 3:23, Romans 6:23

[vii] Romans 8:1, Romans 10:9, Romans 8:14

[viii] Romans 12:1-2

[ix] Matthew 7:3-5

[x] Colossians 4:6, James 3:17

[xi] Titus 3:2-3

[xii] 1 Timothy 2:4

[xiii] 2 Corinthians 5:17

[xiv] Jeremiah 1:5


October 21, 2026
As we approach the end of fall and the harvest season, we often focus our attention on Thanksgiving Day. We are fortu­nate to live in a land that recognizes the need to pause and give thanks to our great God for the many blessings he bestows upon us. However, the Bible calls us to be thankful in all times and circumstances – not just once a year. “O give thanks unto the Lord, for he is good.” [i] “In every thing give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.” [ii] These two verses are similar and yet can be interpreted differently if quoted in isolation. Thanking God for his good­ness seems an easy commandment to obey; however, some circumstances are more difficult to appreciate. Giving thanks or being thankful is referenced over one hundred times in scripture. And naturally it can seem easier to give thanks when circumstances are pleasing. It is easier to thank God when a loved one repents. It is easier to thank him when we are sitting in church, listening to his Word, worshipping in song, surrounded by faithful believers. It is easier to recite 1 Thess. 5:18 when the trials of life are light and well-spaced. But what happens when life is not going well, circumstances seem impossible, or difficulties seem to pile up? Can we have thankful posture in dire situations or through sad experiences? It is clear in the Bible that by God’s grace and with intentional effort, we can have a thankful spirit and respect toward God even when the load is heavy. Scriptures in Job provide an excellent Old Testament example. After hearing a series of devastating reports about his family and possessions, Job was able to say “The Lord gave, and the Lord hath taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.” [iii] After being struck with sore boils from the sole of his foot to his crown and having been ridiculed by his wife for retaining his integrity, Job said “Shall we receive good at the hand of God, and shall we not receive evil?” [iv] Job did not minimize the pain of the evil he was experiencing, but in the midst of the devastation he focused his attention on the goodness and faithfulness of God. Likewise, the disciples in the New Testament were often faced with seemingly insurmountable obstacles as they spread the Word of God. Yet they looked upon their afflictions as a privi­lege. After being beaten and com­manded to not speak in the name of Jesus, “They departed from the pres­ence of the council, rejoicing that they were counted worthy to suffer shame for his name.” [v] At the same time, when Stephen was stoned, they grieved deeply at the devastating loss, yet trusted in God’s grace and goodness to see them through and somehow redeem the worst of circumstances. -----------------CONTINUED PORTION BELOW-------------------- Remembering the Lord's graciousness and track record of bringing good out of evil can help us maintain a thankful heart despite the challenges we face. Whether amidst hard circumstances or easy, we can focus on the goodness and faithfulness of God. Without intentional focus, we can tend to overlook gratitude when life is good because the very simple and basic needs of life are so easily realized. An abundance of material blessings can lead us to take basic needs for granted. However, being grounded in a thankful spirit can help carry us when sometimes things do not seem abundant. Simple disciplines or practices can help us foster this thankful spirit. Taking the time to pause and write a list of all we have received from God, giving him thanks for his goodness can help us turn from an entitled mindset toward a thankful mindset. Remembering God's goodness can be especially helpful when life is hard. The practice of gratitude journaling helps us remain focused on God above all during these overwhelming times. Beyond the physical needs that can be so easy to count, he also provides many spiritual blessings. In time of need, he provides us with an abundance of grace that gives us love we do not deserve and helps us serve him in ways far beyond what we could do of our own ability. God’s wisdom and his compassion assure us that he will provide for all our needs, and yet he will also withhold what is harmful if we will allow him to do so. He knows our needs and in his infinite wisdom he will supply all our needs. A practice of worshipping God can also help grow our spiritual life and encourage grateful hearts. God’s truths can be engraved into our minds as we sing and praise him, no matter the circumstances. In addition, our church body encourages us to connect, travel, and grow together as believers, helping one another during both joyous and hard times in life. This spiritual connection with others is a spiritual blessing that can easily be forgotten. Finally, many of us have been born into families where we were taught the truth of God’s Word, being exposed since we were young to the promise of salvation through Jesus Christ and the knowledge of our great and loving God whom we can call Father. This thankful spirit is often born out of knowing the Father, whose image we carry. Having a clear vision and understanding of God’s character and attributes can help us develop a thankful spirit. Among the many reasons to thank God are his power, his grace, and his mercy. We thank him for the love he showed when he sent his only begotten son, allowing us to have forgiveness of our sins and victory over death through repentance, confession, and faith in his name. He provides his Word, giving us a perfect source of wisdom and direction for our lives. His Holy Spirit provides believers with comfort, conviction, and guidance toward all truth. In addition, there are many other attributes of God to consider such as his goodness, presence, sustenance, protection, and many more. The implications for our lives of the many attributes in this list, which could be much longer, are beyond human comprehension but worth contemplating more deeply as we practice a life of gratitude. Whether you are in a joyous time of life or a time when life is difficult, may the remembrance of these many truths provide a new understanding to the Scripture’s challenge to, “In every thing, give thanks.” [vi] May this Thanksgiving holiday remind you of our great and good God, the loving sacrifice of Jesus, and the faithful presence of the Holy Spirit who has come to guide us not only in the good, but also in the difficult of life. And may this testimony of thankfulness greatly affect our own lives and the lives of those around us. [i] Psalm 107:1 [ii] I Thess. 5:18 [iii] Job 1:21 [iv] Job 2:10 [v] Acts 5:41 [vi] I Thess. 5:18
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